Why do fictional people feel like friends?
On the real connections we make with made-up people — and the small things they help us notice.
Books. People. The bits in between.
Stories, notes and observations on books, people and everyday life — with a few detours.

Process
Side thoughts
A closer look
What makes an imagined person feel familiar?
There is a particular kind of comfort in returning to a story you already know. No introductions are needed. The rhythm is familiar. Somebody will say the wrong thing, somebody will understand what they meant, and the…
Keep readingWhat makes an imagined person feel familiar?
There is a particular kind of comfort in returning to a story you already know. No introductions are needed. The rhythm is familiar. Somebody will say the wrong thing, somebody will understand what they meant, and the…
Keep readingCan a story improve a question without settling it?
A book can give us a view of a life we have never lived. That is an invitation, not a qualification. Finishing the last page does not mean we now understand every person whose circumstances resemble the…
Keep readingHow can an ordinary detail become a better question?
A good opening does not always need a spectacular event. Sometimes it needs an exact detail: the chair nobody chooses, the handwritten sign in a window, the pause before somebody answers a simple question. These are imagined…
Keep readingWhen does a second thought make a story better?
Some of the most interesting sentences arrive after the conversation seems to have ended. “Actually,” someone says, “there is another way of looking at that.” A small door opens in an argument that had appeared to be…
Keep readingSome stories begin with a big question.
Others with a detail you almost missed.
On the real connections we make with made-up people — and the small things they help us notice.
Not all the answers. Sometimes something more useful: a reason to ask a better question.
There might be a story in the things we usually walk past. The trick is to look without deciding too soon.
A thought about noticing, second thoughts, and leaving a little room for the unfinished.
The questions connect. Choose one and see where it leads.
On the real connections we make with made-up people — and the small things they help us notice.
Read this storyA question, an observation, a thoughtful correction.
There is always room for another perspective.